{"id":11873,"date":"2019-08-21T12:00:37","date_gmt":"2019-08-21T09:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/?p=11873"},"modified":"2020-07-07T14:00:35","modified_gmt":"2020-07-07T11:00:35","slug":"5-oshibok-v-obshchenii-onlajn-kotorye-otvor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/5-oshibok-v-obshchenii-onlajn-kotorye-otvor","title":{"rendered":"5 mistakes in online communication on international dating sites that turn a man away from a Lady"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"wrapperr\">\n<div id=\"photo_block\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/5-mistakes-in-online-communication-to-turn-a-man-away-en.jpg\" width=\"100%\" height=\"auto\" \/><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It happened! He replied &#8230; talked to me&#8230; and then disappeared &#8230;?\nLadies and Translators of dating and marriage agencies! For your understanding there are the possible causes of the break. Find out and do not do as described below.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>1. Depressing mood &#8211; everything is bad<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Do not chat in a bad mood. Despite the fact that this is not personal communication and no one will see a \u201csour\u201d grimace, indifferent attitude is felt in the chatting. Of course, if you belong to a unique category of people who can turn on the positive in a second and spew happiness when the soul is disgusting &#8211; ok. But there are few such people.\nTherefore, if everything is bad, wait until it is changed, and you will want to give joy, and then go to the chat. A man comes for happiness, but not cry together or get someone out of depression.\nThe \u201cI&#8217;m sad\u201d and \u201cI&#8217;m tired of everything\u201d chats finish quickly.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>2. Ultimatums<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Forget about terms, \u201cif-then\u201d claims. All this will be the culmination of your communication, which will end here. Undoubtedly, a Man can really like a Lady, but a rare Man gets delight with ultimatums. And if you find such a \u201crare\u201d Man, there are no questions, but for 99% of men a tone like \u201cAre you insane? &#8230;\u201d is the end of communication.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>3. \u201cMy ego\u201d Syndrome<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You can speak and speak about yourself &#8230; the topic is inexhaustible, on the one hand. But do not do that. If you had personal experience with a person who talks only about himself like I &#8230; and I think &#8230; , just remember this.\nListening to such people, you understand how much he does not care about your opinion, needs, thoughts &#8230; Then why do you need to communicate with him?\nDisinterest in the interlocutor is a direct path to the fact that your communication will end quickly.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>4. Indifference<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If there is no reaction, I do not want to talk. Inattentive attitude to trifles and not trifles, events, incidents &#8230; emotionlessness are a sign that Men will not want to tell you something, share, and therefore communicate.\nIf a Man tells you something, he expects praise or admiration or a desire to clarify and learn more.\nIf you missed the information that the Man shared, did not pay attention to something from his life &#8230; the Man will conclude that the Lady is indifferent, and will go for search of the one that will say to him: \u201cwow !!! it seems you\u2019re a master at something &#8230;! Cool! \u201dor:\u201c really ??? were you really there?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>5. Mercantilism<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Of course, everyone understands that life without money is not easy one. And material things are important. But, if in your communication the theme of money, gifts, luxury, material dreams will prevail &#8230; then communication can be interrupted even with a millionaire.\nForeign Men are especially attentive to such things. They run to international dating sites from women who are fixated only on money in their country, in the hope that here they will find ladies with other values.\nOf course, it is ok sometimes to discuss some kind of purchase together\nBut this is not good for Men, when money is female paranoia.\nTalks about \u201cI want everything, more and immediately\u201d or \u201chow much money you have\u201d are stop communication.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start putting these tips into practice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b><i>Just pay attention<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that the manual search of the interlocutor is not prospective on international dating sites.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you really want to have a lot of interlocutors and fans, so that your profile is noticed by men among thousands of other ladies from the site gallery, you definitely need ChatOS software.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Download extensions for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/chat\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chats [click<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">] and for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/letter\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mails [click]<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for the dating site, and the automatic system will find you many men for active unforgettable communication and emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And you just accept the chats and enjoy the male attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Have successful searching and pleasant long chats!<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<style>\n#wrapperr p{\nmargin-top: 1.5em;\nfont-size: 1em;\nfont-weight: 400;\n}\n#wrapperr h1{\nfont-size: 1em;\nfont-weight: 400;\ncolor: black;\n}\n#photo_block{\nwidth: 45%;\nfloat: left;\n margin: 0 2em 0.8em 0;\n box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #0a3940;\n padding:0;\"\n}\n#photo_block img{\npadding:0;\nmargin:0 0 -6px 0;\n}\n@media screen and (max-width: 650px){\n#photo_block{\nwidth: 100%;\nfloat: none;\n}\n#question1{\npadding-top: 1.8em;\n}\n}\n<\/style>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It happened! 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