{"id":6732,"date":"2018-09-17T11:00:15","date_gmt":"2018-09-17T08:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/?p=6732"},"modified":"2018-11-23T15:14:45","modified_gmt":"2018-11-23T12:14:45","slug":"o-shansah-devushek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/o-shansah-devushek","title":{"rendered":"About lady&#8217;s chances  to find a husband with the help of the marriage agency"},"content":{"rendered":"<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6733\" src=\"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u0415\u043b\u0435\u043d\u0430-\u041a\u043e\u0432\u0430\u043b\u0435\u0432\u0441\u043a\u0430\u044f3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1176\" height=\"762\" \/>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Elena Kovalevskaya, international dating agency, \r\n<a style=\"color: #008000; font-size: 18pt;\" href=\"http:\/\/happyfamily.com.ua\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> \u00abHappy Family\u00bb<\/a> founder\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><strong>About lady&#8217;s chances  to find a husband with the help of the marriage agency\r\n<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt;\"> The interest of Ukrainians to men from Europe, Asia, and America is growing exponentially. But the problem is that many ladies are still afraid to take the first step, and they doubt that they will manage to meet a decent man.\r\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #000000;\">To dispel the prejudices of Ukrainian beauties who dream about happy marriage with a foreigner, we had an interview with the founder of one of the most successful marriage agencies in our country- \u00abHappy Family\u00bb IDA ,Elena Kovalevskaya. and asked about ways to find a &#8220;soulmate&#8221; among the &#8220;overseas princes&#8221;. How properly build a relationship, and then create a happy family.\r\n<\/span>\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 16pt; color: #000000;\"><strong><em>What are the main features of cooperation between ladies and marriage agency: what is the difference between expectations and reality, what clients want and what they get as a result?<\/em>\r\n<\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">Based on my observations,  positive expectations get true only those ladies which are positive, open to acquaintance with foreign men and long-term relationships, but at the same time realize that her future chosen one is a man from another country with a different culture and mentality. \r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">If a ladyl respects traditions, cultural heritage, the groom&#8217;s country history then it is easier for her to build a strong and happy family with him.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">But, alas, there are still  the problem of another&#8217;s culture &#8220;non-acceptance&#8221;. Many ladies are not ready to be flexible and spend time studying the language and cultural values of the man she likes. They are sure that all foreigners who come to Ukraine are ready to marry the first they meet.  This is not true. Among our clients we have men with good education and wealth. There are attorneys, businessmen, lawyers, owners of their own companies. They are interested in sincere feelings and search for the &#8220;soulmate&#8221;, which will be an inspiration and support in all endeavors. That&#8217;s why we work with ladies which want not only to get support  from a man, but also are ready to do the same for him.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<em><span style=\"font-size: 16pt; color: #000000;\"> <strong>What would you advise the ladies who plan to contact the marriage agency for the first time?<\/strong><\/span><\/em>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt;\"It seems to me that it is important to remember that there are two sides  in the relationship between a woman and a man. Some girls forget about this, and act like \"Snow Queen\" being ready to receive gifts and attention without giving anything in return.  In this case there are not so much chances for successful relations development, because men appreciate sincerity, openness, soulness, even if they are not their ideal.\r\nWe register ladies only with good intentions who are interested in creating a family and intended of having a long-term relationships. We do not work with ladies expecting only to get expensive presents, money and other material benefits from foreign men.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><strong><emWhat are the ladies chances in finding a decent man and getting married thanks to your marriage agency?\r\n<\/em><\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt;\">If a lady has such a goal, then she will reach it. But I always warn them just in case \u00abWe are not wizards, but we will do everything that depends on us\u00bb. Next stage is a large preparation: the lady&#8217;s profile appears on our website and the sites of our proven partners. These are international marriage networks operating under the law   IMBRA, that is, under the law of international settlement. This means that our partners check the accuracy of the information provided by men: family name, family status, number of children. They also find out if a man had any problems with law. Only after that they sign with him an official document on cooperation.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">I think this is right, since a man, signing an official document when registering a profile is legally responsible for the provided information. Yes, and being of this document will a real advantage in the future. For example, when registering the bride&#8217;s visa, the first thing that a lawyer will ask for is an official document that was signed by a lady and a man at a meeting in the marriage agency.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">But the point is that our ladies sign exactly the same agreement.Of course, at first it causes a lot of controversy, as it seems to the ladies that we will use their data to do a bank account, for example.  We always explain  what the purposes of the profile filling in and the passport scanning  and that it is also important for our partners to secure their clients  from dating ladies with dubious goals.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<em><span style=\"font-size: 16pt; color: #000000;\"><strong>In addition to signing the contract, are there any more &#8220;tests&#8221; for ladies?\r\n<\/strong><\/span><\/em>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">All  ladies get interviewed in our offices in Kiev and Kharkiv, providing the passport, which we scan, and a divorce document, if any.\r\nOur approach to the ladies selection is quite serious, but that&#8217;s why we are more likely than others rejoice in the news about formed couples and forthcoming weddings.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-size: 16pt; color: #000000;\"><strong><em>What  priorities have to have ladies who want to find a husband with a help of agency?\r\n<\/em><\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">It seems to me that the most important thing is to be sure that you really want to get married. Not just walking, not having good time with a man, but creating a strong and happy family. It will be easier for us and the lady to reach the goal, because there is a specificity.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">The second important point is that the lady should respect a man and at the same time, take his culture, parents, friends. And she will receive a similar attitude to herself.  Strong, friendly and happy unions are created just on mutual respect and trust \r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #242329e3;\">The third advice I give to ladies is to learn how truly to love. This means that one should treat a man with deep respect and gratitude, and in no case be offended if he did not give flowers or some nice present on the first date. It is possible that at the second or third meeting he will ask her hand in marriage, but only to that lady who will accurately assess this gesture.\r\n<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: 14pt; color: #000000;\">To be continued<\/span>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<blockquote class=\"article-about__blockquote article-about__blockquote-rule\">\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 16pt; font-weight: 400;\">More interesting interviews with experts &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/interview-with-an-expert\" style=\"font-size: 18pt; color: #008000;\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Elena Kovalevskaya, international dating agency, \u00abHappy Family\u00bb founder\u00a0 About lady&#8217;s chances to find a husband with the help of the&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6748,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6732","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-interview"],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.2","language":"en","enabled_languages":["ru","uk","en"],"languages":{"ru":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"uk":{"title":false,"content":false,"excerpt":false},"en":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false}}},"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6732","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6732"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6732\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7492,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6732\/revisions\/7492"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6732"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6732"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chatoptimizer.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6732"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}