5 tips how to come up with an invitation in chat

15.10.2019 12:03

1.Analyze lady’s interests / hobbies / passion – Study the lay’s profile and highlight her interests. Choose strong points on the basis of which you can start a dialogue with a man, what gives the lady positive emotions and is her strong sides.

For example, the profile shows that the lady is fond of fitness, horse riding, photography, likes cooking. From this list you can select at least these hobbies where a man can participate as well as share the process, for example: horse riding – an invitation to ride a horse, learning to ride, feeding an animal, techniques: step, trot, gallop.



2.Think what are the key qualities, hobbies, main interests which a man can obtain. Think over and write out popular, hype topics which are spread among the male population.

For example, a man fonds of cars, likes movement, and is ready to take risks.


3. From the list you made, select the top, the “hottest” interesting qualities for both partners, interests that you could support when conducting the dialogue.

For example: ready to take a risk, pair riding, fast riding v / s slow riding


4. For each of the selected qualities / interests / topics, compose 5 questions, characterizing the “process”.
Use not only the grammatical knowledge of English language, but also the inner curiosity of a person who is interested in this topic or in a person who is deeply involved in it.

For example: How do you feel about riding on a first date? Would you prefer a romantic atmosphere or speed and drive? Have you ever paired a horse? Do you know the main secret of horse riding? Is it important for you to trust and relax while riding?


5. Point out top 3 questions and start sending. Point out top 3 questions and start sending.
And of course, analyze the result. If after some time you see that the expected reaction is worse than you hoped then – change the subject.

For example: How do you feel about riding on a first date? Do you know the main secret of horse riding? Is it important for you to trust and relax while riding?


Have a nice chatting!

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