Why a lady can’t get the attention from men on an international dating site?
Let’s consider the situation when a lady starts her searching on an international dating site.
Her search is the culmination after a difficult preparatory process. These are interviews with dating agency specialists, creating a profile, a photo shoot, a difficult process to get prepared psychologically.
And after that a lady is on the site. She is worried and full of hope.
Of course, modern women understand that the times when a man should take the first step to a lady stayed in the past. So, start communicating with a man, who can be interesting to the lady, is an ordinary and simple thing. It seems easy. But… That’s what really happens.
The lady is online. She is ready to communicate, she worries, she tries to look good, to make a good impression on a man if it’s a video chat… She starts sending invitations to a chat, mails, and she gets silence in response.
The lady is upset. The dating site shows her that a huge number of men are online. But the inactivity of men, non-response and uninteresting to her person destroys all hopes.
What is the problem? Is she ugly? Not interesting? Does no one man want to pay attention to her? Does no one need her sincere mails? Does nobody see that she is special?
In fact, for a woman such thoughts are new broken dreams, disappointments and proof that she is not worthy of happiness. After all, it’s not a secret for anyone if a woman “thinks up” something it’s almost impossible to change her mind.
And now we add that this is not a rare case. A huge number of ladies can’t get attention from men. They look for reasons in themselves or cursing a dating site.
And now there is the truth!
Men do not respond because they just can’t see invitations to chat, they can’t manage their mailboxes to read mails.
Because thousands of ladies send millions of messages and men very often just do not see the invitation to a chat on their screen. A man receives too many invitations at the same time, he doesn’t see all of them. In fact, such chaos and so many messages from ladies is spam. Because everything that is uncontrollable, obsessive and goes beyond common sense is silly message, spam.
ЕThere is an opinion that the more you send invitations, the more chances to get feedback.
No!!! Dear ladies, dear dating agencies! The effectiveness is in the smart searching.
Smart searching is
- When ladies send invitations and mails to a certain number of men with a certain frequency.
- When an invitation comes to a man who can take it and see it, then he can pay attention.
- When the search is based on the priorities and criteria of all participants. It is obvious that the invitation from a 20-years-old lady to an 80-years-old man can’t be adequately assessed.
ChatOS has thoroughly learned the problem of spam on international dating sites. Realizing that spam is the main reason for failures in the searching and activity of dating agencies and international dating sites in general, we created a solution that completely solves the problem of spam and satisfies all requests of all participants in finding soul mate.
We have created a technology balancer. This solution is implemented in the ChatOS functional.
This is a guarantee of quality search and protection against spam. It provides the quality of the market.
Technology balancer
- helps ladies to attract attention
- as a result men see their messages
- It will be the beginning of communication
- a dating site doesn’t lose users
- dating agencies makes people happy and get a well-deserved reward for it.
ChatOS is for the healthy international dating market. Let’s fight spam together.
Start putting these tips into practice.
Just pay attention that the manual search of the interlocutor is not prospective on international dating sites.
If you really want to have a lot of interlocutors and fans, so that your profile is noticed by men among thousands of other ladies from the site gallery, you definitely need ChatOS software.
Download extensions for chats [click] and for mails [click] for the dating site, and the automatic system will find you many men for active unforgettable communication and emotions.
And you just accept the chats and enjoy the male attention.
Sincerely, the ChatOS team!
