5 things to do after the first chat
1. Add Man to Fans.
If you are not disappointed in the man during the first chat, then this man deserves special attention.
Each self-respecting and correctly organized search Lady has her own favorites. And here is the moment. You will be popular if you keep all Men with whom you communicate in the zone of your attention.
And that means keeping a kind of audit. Of course, each Lady or Translator has its own methods: lists, notes, descriptions, leaflets, electronic documents, phenomenal memory…
We will talk about a simple and effective recipe adding Men to “Fans” directly in the extension.
What it is for. This is In order not to lose or forget about the Man tomorrow, in a week or a month. In order to send invitations to chats or mails. In order to control when he went online and quickly invite him to chat, until he had time to get bored or look at another one.
If it’s added, go ahead!2. Arrange the next ‘meeting’
Be sure to agree on the next communication. Do not wait for an invitation from Men. Your “happiness” is in your hands.
Ask openly when he will be online next time, agree on the time of the next conversation, inform that you will be waiting for him at this time.
So your chances for the second and subsequent “dates” take off.
Firstly, your interest is pleasant for a man. Secondly, a very rare man will not keep his promise, will not come on a date, knowing that the girl is waiting for him, worries, hopes, looks around, looks out … but he is not …
3. All that they have learned is in ‘memory’.
Each has its own “memory” and storage location. As the experience of successful Translators shows, the easiest and most effective way to “remember” is to write the information about the Man that you found in the chat into the Comments and Notes section of the Fan in the chat extension. Why: this info with you right in the extension is always at hand.
So no detail will be forgotten, and you will “remember” even the breeds, names, age and color of all 10 of his favorite pets 🙂 and what’s important – you will find everything you need in 2 seconds without having to frantically recall or search for documents with notes somewhere there.
And it is important to “remember” everything. When a man understands that everything he has said is of interest and significance to you, he will be happy to continue communication.
But then again – each has his own ways of working, choose for yourself. The main thing is that all the information that you learned in the chat about the Man is recorded.
4. A letter about the chat.
Write a letter to the man in which you tell about feelings after the chat and add a couple of photos.
Why is it important. Now think about yourself and remember. Something special happened in your life. What will happen next? You will think about it, scroll a hundred times what has been said and done, smile or be sad, remembering … Here! Caught? This is the emotion that should be after the chat with the Man and which needs to be described in the letter, again paying attention to some detail and telling how impressed you are with this and that.
He will also think about this chat for sure. And when he receives your letter, and also with a photo in the subject, he is unlikely to leave you. And even if, during a chat, he could doubt whether it fits, it does not fit him, then your letter is a plus on the scales “Fits.” So – a chance that next time – to be!
5. Wait for the Man and ‘run’ to him.
Invite a man to chat as soon as he is online with a special invitation.
What does it mean special? This means that it’s not standard “How are you?” Or the like. It’s a big mistake to write neutral invitations to fans.
It’s like being emotionally close, and for tomorrow pretend that he is just one of the crowd. Agree, we meet close and special people with a smile and “Oooh! Greetings !!! ”, but not“ Good afternoon – I’m glad to meet you ”Do you feel the difference?
Invite to communication with a message that will hint and remind him of your previous communication and show your joy and anticipation of a new meeting.
And further. If the Man did not respond to your first invitation to chat, do not panic. Maybe he was just distracted, went to make tea and did not see the message at that moment.
Invite again!Start putting these tips into practice.
Just pay attention that the manual search of the interlocutor is not prospective on international dating sites.
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Successful search and exciting communication!
