PERSONAL MEETINGS WITH FOREIGNERS AT THE DATING AGENCY

29.08.2017 16:55

If you are a client of a dating agency on an international dating site, then it will come time for personal meetings after a successful search for fans on the site. What do you need to know about it? Here are the rules for meeting with foreigners. Following them it will provide you safety, joy of communication and if not a relationships then at least, a pleasant time spending.

First of all:

  1. Think about your safety.Of course, you can meet on his area or go in for trip if you feel confident. But a good place for the first meeting is your comfort zone. As they say, even the walls help at home. Moreover, the marriage agency will take care about the arrangement of the meeting. You are in good hands. Your concern is to think about your look and enjoy such pleasant procedures for any lady as make-up, hairstyle and choice of a beautiful outfit.
  2. Discuss the details of the meeting with a man.By the way, this is a good way to understand if he is ready to hear your opinion and make compromises. Household and financial troubles are a proper way to understand the important features of a potential fiance. In advance schedule the date of the meeting, the planned amount of time that you would like to spend together (of course, if you both keep interest to each other after dating in reality). Do not be silent about the details. It’s not a shame to plan everything in advance. Foreign men are very pragmatic, and for them it is not a problem to put everything in order. Therefore, plan everything to avoid misunderstandings at meeting.
And here is a MEETING:
  1. Keep calm – it’s just a meeting, not a wedding. Personal communication, the opportunity to get to know each other personally and compare expectations with reality. Now it is the opportunity for you to decide if you will continue the relationship. The calmer you are – the more objective you will accept reality. Your partner is not worried less than you. Therefore, pull yourself together, turn on the charm and ability to take the situation objectively.
  2. Let the man seek you, do not be afraid to say no.Pay attention to every little thing in his words and behavior. In fact, this is not a trifle. Do not go against your principles, being afraid to upset the man. First of all be honest with yourself. Smile if it’s fun, and be sad if you’re upset or disappointed. If a man will see your true emotions, he will understand your priorities. This will help him to identify ways how to win your heart and make you happy if he is interested in developing the relationships.
  3. Behave yourself easy and openedRemember, we get what we give. Pleasant emotions are a good helper for such a meeting. Even if this is the first and last meeting, then let it be just a pleasant day for both. If a man and a woman understand that they are so different and do not see themselves together, then it is not worth telling each other “in colors” all the shortcomings. This makes no sense. Be correct. And vice versa, your enthusiasm from each other will grow many times if the communication is warm and your sincerity and charm will be unlimited.
  4. Do not be afraid of mistakes or inconveniences.The man is as worried as you are. Try to communicate on different topics, but do not ask incorrect questions. Do not ask to speak directly about the details of his past at the first date. If a man wants, he will tell you about it. You both met in the hope of starting a new happy phase in life. Focus on this. “Dark spots” are even in the sun. Sometimes memories of the past are painful. You will learn about his past, but later. Simply, this is not a topic for the first conversation.
  5. Visit interesting places.Foreign men like excursions, walks in the famous places of the city, even visiting the amusement park. This will make the meeting comfortable and easy. You will not be bored, and, therefore, you will not have awkward pauses from ignorance, what to say or what to do next. Let this meeting be a holiday. It will be a good helper to open up to each other more.
  6. A special theme is gifts.Do not wait for gifts and do not get upset if a man came “empty-handed”. First, it can be a feature of the foreigner’s mentality. Secondly, often foreign men give gifts just before they leave, even if this gift was bought in advance. Although, the man will be happy if he receives from the lady some small surprise for the memory even at the beginning of the meeting.

So, what is important:

Every acquaintance or relationship is individual. It is impossible to write a script which will be a recipe for happiness for everyone. There are common truths, but each of us decides what to say, how close we are to each other, whether it is worth introduce a foreigner to friends or relatives, whether to invite him at home.

It is important:

Find your soulmate quickly and qualitatively, communicate with him for a while in chat rooms and letters to get to know each other. And then the meeting will be a logical continuation of communication, but with new colors and emotions.

Start putting these tips into practice. 

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